When children of all abilities play, learn, and grow together, everyone benefits — children, families, communities, and our society as a whole!
Inclusion ensures children with and without disabilities have the same opportunities to engage in meaningful experiences and relationships. Inclusive learning and social experiences help children feel a sense of belonging, connection, and worth. Inclusive play is one of the most effective ways we can support positive early development for young children. In fact, inclusive play is one of the most effective ways we can support positive life-long development for all of us! Here are five ways to harness the power of inclusive play.
1. Adopt an inclusive attitude
Inclusion starts with the belief that everyone is important and valuable. When we create an environment where everyone belongs, it fosters a sense of community and acceptance. Research shows that successful inclusion is rooted more in mindset than in methodology. By modeling kindness, acceptance, and welcoming behaviors, and reinforcing these values daily, children learn to embrace diversity and foster friendships. Inclusion is driven by the belief that it is not only the right thing to do, but also that it is achievable.
2. Know kids, not labels
To effectively include children with disabilities, it’s crucial to see them as individuals, not just as their diagnoses. Every child has unique strengths, weaknesses, likes, and dislikes. Rather than generalizing based on a disability, getting to know each child as a person allows for more meaningful connections and avoids harmful stereotyping. Children with disabilities, like all children, are motivated by the same factors and want to be seen, heard, and valued for who they are. Understanding their individual abilities, needs, and preferences helps in supporting their independence and fostering success.
3. Communicate openly
Open communication is key to successful inclusion. Being receptive to questions, comments, and discussions helps address uncertainties or misconceptions. Often, uncomfortable or awkward interactions stem from a lack of knowledge or experience. By pausing to reflect rather than reacting harshly, and by seeking clarification or information, we can build a shared learning experience. Honesty and a willingness to admit what you don’t know, coupled with a commitment to finding answers, can bridge gaps in understanding and promote inclusivity.
4. Celebrate both similarities and differences
Diversity without connection leads to separation. Inclusion thrives when diversity is connected to empathy and learning. It’s important to help children identify and celebrate both what they have in common and what makes each child unique. Normalizing differences as a unifying factor rather than a dividing one fosters a sense of belonging for all. Recognizing that everyone has something valuable to contribute, regardless of their abilities, helps create a more inclusive and supportive environment.
5. Let kids be kids
Children naturally form friendships when given the opportunity to interact in a supportive environment. While friendships can’t be forced, they can be fostered by creating conditions where children respect, learn from, and support each other. Inclusive practices encourage children to play, have fun, and explore together. Allowing children to try new things, struggle, solve problems, and succeed on their own empowers them and reinforces the idea that fun transcends differences.
Let’s work together to make inclusive play the expectation, not the exception. Everyone benefits! Fun is an equalizer, and smiles are universal.
